So you want to get started in a Job or Career as a Phone Sext entertainer?
This article will help you decide if working as a PSO suits you. And if you decide it is, it’ll give you the tools to get started. So let’s begin!
Can you handle it?
Many people become a PSO (Phone Sex Operator) to make quick, easy cash and don’t have any long-term goals in this industry. There’s nothing wrong with that, but if you are doing PSO work as a way to make quick, easy money, your goals might be different from a person who intends to be a career PSO.
Being a PSO is not difficult work, BUT not everyone can do it. The most important thing you need when starting is what my first company told me: You need to put on some armor mentally.
Being a PSO is not difficult, but it can be mentally taxing. There are stories of girls who’ve had mental breakdowns from taking some of these calls.
The people you will talk to… primarily men, but some women and transgender people... can have some strange and even disturbing fantasies. And from time to time, you may have to play roles that might be uncomfortable for you…that is until you become proficient enough that you can work for yourself and run your own phone sex line. Then you can decide what kind of calls you will and will not take.
But until you get to that level, you are at the mercy of whatever PSO house you work for. There are Phone sex companies that will not do certain “Taboos” like age play. Age play is playing out a fantasy for a pedophile where you are acting as a child/teenager.
If you feel something like that would be too uncomfortable for you to do, you should find a company that does not do age play calls. The same goes for other taboos like Bestiality, Gore, Rape, Incest, and others. Some companies do mostly “vanilla” calls, and it might be an excellent place to start until you build up enough mental/emotional armor to do more intense stuff.
There’s nothing wrong with doing Vanilla/Non-Taboo calls only for your whole PSO career. Certain types of fetishes, like GFE (Girlfriend Experience), might allow for less extreme sex talk. Also, wackier, creative role-plays like wrestler fetish often don’t call for taboos like rape, though some guys can work it in there, so that’s no guarantee.
If you have many taboos, the best thing to do is get really good at the fetishes you are comfortable with. Do you refuse to do beastiality? Well, get good at Sissy Training if you are more comfortable with that. Can’t stand GORE calls? Learn to do the best “Giantess” calls that rely more on comedy or sensuality than blood sport.
I don’t like gore either, but I am fascinated by VORE calls, which can be gorey. So, I tend to move more toward being funny or sexy with Vore. Rather than focusing on the bloody aspect, focus more on the “Joining together of two bodies” like with sex, but with one party devouring the other instead. This seems to be what a lot of vore fetishes like anyway, so this usually makes them happy, and they don’t seem to miss the blood at all.
I also am not fond of age play; sometimes, it’s too disturbing. But doing other fetishes, like Financial domination, helps me work through some of my “power” issues. Whereas age play makes me feel helpless, being a Domme helps me feel strong.
Either way, alert any company you work for of what fetishes you are uncomfortable with. Being a Phone Sext operator is an awesome job and can be a lot of fun IF you take care not to force yourself to do uncomfortable things.
If you’re very new to the business, you might have to work a while and find what you are and are not comfortable with. Being a PSO will not only teach you a lot about men and the male imagination but a lot about yourself too. What kinds of things turn you on, and what kind of things make you angry or upset.
All in all, it’s great to learn these things while being paid for it!
It’s yet another benefit of being PSO, one that is very valuable in this unique business!